Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Skateboarding, swinging

Nikolas's latest favorite activity is riding a skateboard.
He also learned how to swing by himself. I captured him here doing it for the first time.
Mikica finally learned to run for real, bouncing off the ground instead of what looks like speed-walking. He can now say voda, maca, meko, zaba, car, crocs, hi, bye, cao, but he'll repeat voz, auto,... (water, kitten, milk, frog,...).
Sonja rides the battery-operated car and also loves to sit behind Nikolas on the skateboard.

I love Nikolas's experimentation with usage of words. Some expressions don't work in English: 'Ni u sud' (Da se nisi usudio.) Mama, jesi li ti sad dobra/sretna na mene? (suprotno od ljuta na mene). He tells me, 'Sad cu da gledam crtani na DVD-u, je li jasno?' ('Now I'll watch a cartoon on DVD, is that clear?') Once, shortly after we corrected some English mistake he made, he responded, 'I didn't said nothing.' Oh, no...
At night, when I tuck him in bed, he still sits up (just after I straightened the blanket on top of him, the way he wants it), and kisses me on both cheeks several times and often on mouth and says, 'To je bila muzika poljubaca.' (This was the music of kisses.) Part of the nighttime routine is that I cover him with two blankets, stretched neatly over him. He's been using a large one for a while until he rediscovered one of his old blankets that just barely covers him, but he wants it anyway. And if I accidentally leave the closet door open, he reminds me to close it before I even kiss him good night. Too neat and organized.... it shows when he plays too: he often lines up his cars and trucks in a line--but then he can also make unbelievable mess in the living room and his room... we are working on cleaning up, and the effort is catching on.
The school is teaching them about dinosaurs these days. He recently asked me what extinct meant and one evening as I was reading a dinosaur book to him he started singing a song about dinosaurs! That was the first time he showed me something new they he actually learned in school--it's finally not all about playing with trucks and sand! He is also branching away from his so far the best friend Aagneya. For a few weeks he actually said they weren't friends anymore and didn't want him around but instead asked for Dylan and Nate. Plus he said a couple of times that he dreamed about Audrey and that he is sad when she won't play with him. Watching the girls in Nikolas's class at this age, it's amazing to notice the dynamics: the girls are already cliquish, they hug and kiss each other as they meet in the morning, they pay attention at what they wear, etc.
On the subject of dinosaurs again, he put together a train track with the train on it and lined up his dinosaur toys alongside the track, calling it 'dinosaur train' (the kids' program on TV)! He knows various types of dinosaurs (probably better than I do!). It's amazing how quickly he (ok, kids his age) remembers facts and new words: paleontologist, archeologist... Since we came back from Disney World for his birthday, he's been talking about it every day. Now he is making a lego castle from Disney World (a pretty elaborate one too), and he often mentions the jungle ride where he got scared but know that those are 'pretend animals'. He also mentions the pirate ride that scared him too, but I can see he can't wait to go back again!
Thomas the Train ride at Evan's birthday party:
Daddy with the twins:
Nate's birthday party:

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Happy 2nd birthday, Sonja and Mikice!

Today we had a blast at our communal birthday party for Sonja, Michael and Nikolas, with all of our friends. After days of rain and cold, we were surprised with a beautiful sunny and warm day and 4 birthday parties going on at the same little park. Luckily, I was there first to reserve the best tables while freezing my hands and toes off early in the morning.
Sonja got to pick her birthday dress the night before. I brought out 3 dresses to try on her and she immediately had her eyes on one in particular; another I struggled to put on her, and the third never made it onto Sonja because she threw a fit demanding the little white dress with the squirrel and flowers on it. She is the only one in the family who gets excited about clothes!
Nikolas has been asking me for the past week if his birthday was that day, and I kept explaining that Sonja and Michael's came first on Feb 12th and that his was 11 days later. He didn't quite get it, but that's fine, all three got to have fun today. From indulging in cupcakes as soon as they showed up at the park, riding the battery operated toy car, playing at the playground, hitting the pinata, blowing the candles... it made for a great day!
Mommy with twins and her friend Tuija with Matilda:
Sonja and Matilda:
Audrey (AJ) on the slide:Boys and a car:
Nikolas starting to whack the pinata:
Kids' eyes are focused on the pinata, waiting for the treats to burst out of it!
Some serious focus, Nate!Cake and candles time!
Some close-ups:
After the party Nikolas wasn't able to fall asleep during nap time because he was too excited waiting to open the presents that we promised to do later. All three got a kick out of a monster truck with remote control that kept bumping into our legs for the remainder of the day...

Sunday, February 6, 2011

playing together

Sonja and Mikica play wonderfully together. They wake up together and chat and laugh every morning, and during the day they are at play together most of the time. When I take them to a birthday party or a playdate, they will all three play together, especially if there was a bucket with balls that they could sit in or a sandbox. They will manage to push all other kids away and monopolize the area (Sonja would give others her mean angry look along with a loud 'NO, MINE!)Mikica still says 'pao' and 'baci', but now he'll repeat some other things that I say, like 'crocs' for shoes. Sonja would sometimes say a word so clearly that I'm surprised that she doesn't speak real full sentences. Sometimes, besides her favorite word 'no' she will say 'da' (yes), which is a nice change! She still babbles but still in her own language that sounds like English. Now she is adding hand motion, very girly hand motion, like opening her hands out to the side, crunching her shoulders and raising her eyebrows like she is saying 'I really don't know why Mikica and Nikolas are making such fools out of themselves.'

Sonja can now also put her socks on, not just the shoes. Mikica can put all other shoes on but his own. They are also great at taking their shoes off as soon as we walk into the house (they got trained pretty well!).
Nikolas is at the moment closed in his room with Sonja and Mikica, READING A BOOK TO THEM! He had been practicing writing his name at school. He can sound out words in Serbocroatian, slowly but surely. I started taping large pieces of paper on his wall with simple sentences about what he does every day so that he can read in the morning while he is waiting for me to come and dress him. We removed the knob protector from his door knob so that he can now freely leave the room when he wakes up in the morning if he wants to. He will use the potty (still sleeps in pullups), wipe himself (just started this), empty the potty and even fill it with clean water (after seeing me do it). He is so great at remembering procedures.
I got Nikolas the Connect Four game and we played it a couple of times. He plays with it on his own. Sonja likes to take all the coins and stuff them inside her onesie and then run around so they would jingle, laughing....

Nikolas learned lyrics for some songs on a music CD that we brought from baka last Christmas. That was the first time I heard him sing to a song on a CD (he sang children's songs with me before). He also remembers lines from stories that I read often. While I'm reading Macak U Cizmama (Cat in Boots?), he'd interrupt me by quoting a line from another story about a cat and a rooster that lived together...